After speaking to many men about the fact that I am considered "older" in this game we play here, I have come to the following conclusion:

I am sexier right now than I've ever been.

It was just about 7 years ago I was HOT!! We're talking I wore a size 3 or 5, my body was really tight & I flaunted it every chance I got. Sounds sexy, doesn't it? It was, but only until I opened my mouth & it became obvious that I didn't know shit about life nor did I really even know myself very well.

I had the hot little body with absolutely no confidence to go with it. My body is far from perfect now, yet I find that I am much more comfortable in my own skin then I was when I was "hot".

I now have total confidence, I know that I am one hell of a woman. I have so much to offer that there are men of all ages that actually lust after women like me. How sexy is that?

I believe that most men find that making love to an older, more mature woman extraordinary for the following reasons:

• She has experience pleasing a man
• She knows her own body & how to make it react  
• She isn't afraid to say exactly what it is that she wants  
• She is knows who she is & is comfortable in her own skin
• She isn't afraid to let a man know if what he's doing isn't working for her
• She appreciates a good lover & loves a man that gets off pleasing her
• She says what's on her mind, instead of beating around the bush, She doesn't play games
• She is direct, upfront and assertive
• She has more wisdom due to life experiences
• She has mastered certain skills that have taken years of practice in order to get them right
• She is compassionate & feels empathy when another is down 
• She has a sense of humor 
• She knows that sharing some private time with a man is all about having fun & she realizes that the more fun she has the better he feels about himself

I don't know if you all agree with me or not. I can only say that at this point in my life I feel like...